Mediation FAQ
Manhattan Divorce Mediation FAQs
How should we choose a mediator?
When do we go to mediation sessions?
If I agree to mediation, do I still need a lawyer?
What if mediation does not work?
Are there any divorce issues that should not be mediated?
How should we choose a mediator?
Mediators come from different backgrounds and professions. Choosing a mediator who understands your unique circumstances is extremely important.
Ask the potential mediator a variety of questions about their practice:
- Training
- Previous experience
- Fees
- Professional affiliations
Asking friends and acquaintances for referrals is also a valid option.
How long does mediation take?
The length of mediation varies according to each divorce. Divorces presenting few contested issues can be resolved in as few as two or three sessions. Eight to twelve hour-and-a-half mediation sessions is typical; however, certain issues can arise to prolong the process:
- Complex property settlements
- Child custody and support concerns
- Lack of party co-operation
When do we go to mediation sessions?
Mediation sessions generally occur on a weekly basis for the length of the process. Some caucus sessions may require only one party’s presence in a given week.
Mediation fees in the NYC metro-area usually cost between $250 and $500 per hour. Sessions generally take an hour to an hour-and-a-half. The total cost will be determined by the length of time necessary to mediate the issues in your divorce.
All parties involved, including the mediator, sign confidentiality agreements at the beginning of the process. However, recently, one New York Court determined that a mediator could be compelled to testify in a divorce action following a failed mediation attempt.
If I agree to mediation, do I still need a lawyer?
There are many advantages to hiring a lawyer for mediation. An attorney retained during mediation can advise you of your legal rights during the proceedings and review and draft all settlement documentation.
Your attorney can accompany you to mediation sessions upon your request though I generally recommend that attorneys be consulted outside of mediation sessions.
What if mediation does not work?
Mediation will usually resolve at least some divorce issues. Remaining issues can be litigated in court to reach a legal resolution.
Are there any divorce issues that should not be mediated?
Yes, there are certain circumstances and issues that a court is better equipped to handle:
- Domestic violence
- Child abuse
- Mental illness
- Substance abuse
